I’ve learned over the years that no matter what the circumstances are . Let God take care of your problems . I tried many times to take care of my problems my self and I always failed and made a mess out of it . It took me a bad marriage to learn how to NOT be a step parent . I remember my Grandma Beavers telling me about her mean old step-mother and her running away from home when she thirteen years old . It took me a marriage to learn what that meant . Now it is my turn to be a good step parent . I don’t always succeed but I try my best to let God take care of my problems .